3.10.2008

31 & Lovin' that ...


Well I have official turn the ripe young age of thirty-one. And with that I have come to love a few things in this third decade of my life I call my thirties.
  • I love that the decade of music that I grew up with is now on a oldies hour on the local pop radio station.
  • I love that I now walk a lot slower down the medicine aisle at the grocery store as my body has now become eligible for a few new products.
  • I love that the scale experience is no longer, "Man I need to lose some weight", its now "Man I didn't gain that much, wow that's great".
  • I love that what I am most proud of is a good credit score as opposed to straight teeth and a white Colgate smile.
  • I love that my kids have taught me a new language that slips out into conversations at work, church, and among strangers at the park.
  • I love that I'm thirty which means that I have lived well past the average life span of black men from East Oakland usually complete with jail time, being a corner pharmacist, and having extra baby's mamas.
  • I love that I have reached "grown man status" which has often been an allusive feeling and concept.
  • I love that I now can use such lines, "As a tax payer in this city ..." and half way know what I'm talking about.
  • I love that I'm seasoned not aged.
  • I love that no matter what the future holds I have few regrets thus far with the first 30.
So with all that being said if you are wondering, "man what's to love about being thirty"? Hopefully these thoughts will provide some worthwhile evidence of the goodness that awaits you.

4 comments:

Mama Bear said...

30 something is great! You are mellowing, out to move on, and that's a good thing Tory Dion.

Mama Bear

Chris said...

hecka old!!! :)

C. Adrian said...

This is your boy Adrian. Happy B-Day. I am glad your blogging even if it's not with your boy. Like they say in the south "Keep it movin pimpin".

Shell said...

I love that you make peach cobbler like 'an oldie but goodie"!! Does this sound familiar to you-- "back in the day, when I was young I'm not a kid anymore someday I sit an' wish I was a kid again" {if so then you ARE getting old}

LOL...Miss you guys like crazy down here! Hope you are well! (:
Love!!
The Smiths!